The "Everyone Is Like Me" Bubble: Why We Can't Believe in Evil

Some truths are so dark that the mind would rather call them “impossible” than let them in. I’m unpacking why that denial is so common, how the “everyone is like me” bubble forms, and why it can keep good people naive, shocked, and repeatedly blindsided by behavior they never imagined existed.

From a higher-awareness lens, I walk through how people react when disturbing information surfaces, why outrage can disappear overnight, and what it looks like to hold a balanced view without excusing harm. 

I also share a real learning moment from travel and energy clearing that turned into a hard lesson: if you don’t think through worst-case outcomes, you can accidentally put yourself on the radar of forces or people you didn’t account for. That same worst-case planning tool translates into everyday life too, including parenting, medical appointments, dating, business decisions, and client work. It’s not pessimism, it’s emotional stability and preparedness.

We also get practical about spiritual discernment and energetic protection. Where does “power” come from when someone is disconnected from source energy? What are the common ways people get drained or manipulated by dark forces? And how do you spot red flags with healers, channelers, and famous practitioners when impressive results might hide an energetic cost? If you care about intuition, nervous system safety, and staying connected to clean source energy, this conversation will sharpen your instincts.

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Transcript

Welcome And Host’s Journey

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Welcome to Unveiled, the podcast. I'm your host, Angela Kristen, and I help you with unveiling your true self by peeling away the layers that society placed on you. I do this with a combination of neuroscience, energetics, and ancient spiritual wisdom. I went from underpaid and overworked in corporate America to launching a six-figure company that continues to grow. I went from toxic relationships to be healthy and single for over a year, as I work and continue to work on becoming the best version of myself and so much more. My greatest passion is to help women and mothers feel, transform, and become the highest versions of themselves. As I continue to grow and expand my intuitive knowledge and unique wisdom, I'll be including you on my journey to millions. So let's get into it. How's everyone doing? These crazy times right now. I am excited to be back. So today we're going to talk a little bit about dark forces from a different perspective. Some you might have heard me talk about before, but this would be kind of like very foundational information for dark forces with a little recent story to share with you. So I talked about this on Sunday Source this week, but humans have a really hard time of believing that other people can be bad. It's part of just human nature. We want to see ourselves and other people, right? So when the Epstein files were released, I expected a lot more outrage. I mean, children are literally being tortured, beaten, eaten, raped. Like a lot of people just kind of went back to business as usual, which from a human perspective was frustrating, sad, disappointing, all of those things. But from a higher self perspective, it's like, okay, I can see why, because they don't want one, several different categories here. One, some people just won't even stop to think that it's true, right? Like I actually do know people who didn't even read the Epstein files. They have an opinion on every other political thing, but they will not read the Epstein files, which is interesting. It's part of the mass hypnosis that a lot of people are still under. Or people will read it, be outraged, and then their anger and fear kind of takes over and they're not thinking straight, right? Other people are like, well, some of this seems true, some of it doesn't. Because it is a really hard thing to grasp, like it's a hard concept to grasp that another human would do these things to children, right? But if you've heard me talk in other areas, you'll know, like it's not always just it's not that they're like humans like you and I. They're a little different. Some of them are actually dark forces, some of them are influenced by dark forces, some of them are blackmailed, all the things, right? So they're not like just normal people. So this is what I call the everyone is like me bubble, and why it's really hard for people to believe the worst in others. Like I said, it's really baked into our DNA because our survival has depended on being in a group. And to be in a group, you need to be liked, you need to fit in, right? So we have this beautiful, instinctual, but flawed need to see ourselves in other people. We deep down feel like it keeps us safe, it keeps us connected, but it also creates a massive blind spot because we assume wrongly that everyone thinks the way that we do. There are people right now fighting for their lives on a daily basis, right? And, you know, if you look at certain parts of the world, maybe they're in South America or in South Africa, and for them, survival of the fittest isn't a concept, it's actually their daily reality, right? And in some of these countries, learning about rituals, voodoo, sacrifice at five years old is normal. To them, using energy or dark forces to get what they want isn't evil, it's just normal, or it's a way to survive, or it's a way to be wealthy, right? It's a tool. And what's actually crazier is that we don't believe in all of this and that we aren't taught this. But that's all for a reason. It's to keep us in this bubble to stay naive, all of these things, right? I was speaking to a lovely woman last week, and she was gracious enough to share her story with me. And obviously, I'm not going to share her story here, but I will suffice it to say she saw sacrifices in real life. It was part of her family, it was part of that whole culture, right? And they did it to keep a certain level of wealth. And then once the sacrifices stopped, the wealth disappeared. So this might sound crazy to people in the US, but this is actually not crazy to other people in these countries. It's part of their reality. Another reason why we get really tripped up is that we were never really taught how to put ourselves in other people's shoes and think, what happened in their life to make them act this way, right? We just assume everyone's like us. We assume everyone's just, it's just like a world of mirrors. Uh, well, that is true to a certain point when you're talking about reflections, minus reflections. We don't look at things from a balanced perspective. So even when I do see that someone has done voodoo on someone or something like that, I tend to look at, okay, why did they do that, right? Oh, because they had no money. This is how they were going to feed their children. Or maybe because they sent voodoo to someone because they had wronged them and they can't like physically fight back. So they're doing it this way, right? That doesn't mean it's right or a good thing to do, but I try to look at everything balanced. Another big thing that I want to talk about that I talked a little bit about, I think in the last episode, is how to stop getting blindsided, right? And I'll share a little story about this with you guys. Before you go into a situation, ask, what is the worst thing that could happen? Even maybe have a few different ideas of what could happen in that situation, right? We tend to hope and get excited and think it's going to go amazing. And then what happens? We're at this high, and then it goes horribly, and now we're at a low, right? So Murphy's law exists for a reason that anything that can go wrong will. And when you have a game plan of like the worst things that could happen in a situation, it actually reduces the severity. If it does happen, it's going to be a lot less severe than if you went in with hope. Something that uh I came up against a few weeks ago when I was traveling is whenever I go to a hotel room, I always check if there's any dark energy there attached to the building, whatever, right? I always get permission from source to clear it. If I don't have permission to clear it, I just push it out. So you might be asking, why wouldn't I have permission to clear dark energy? Like let's say it's a ghost. Well, in three days from now, someone could come check into that room. And in order for them to get on their soul path and wake up, they need to have that experience with that ghost, right? So I'm not going to get in the way of someone else's soul plan. So I would just push it out of the room while I'm there. I stopped one step short when I did this when I was traveling. I got that there were two ghosts in the room. I asked, do I have permission? Yes. And then because I was traveling with my child, I just got a little distracted and I didn't look at, okay, what could happen if I clear this? One, is there anyone else in this hotel who has high levels of dark force knowledge? If I had asked that, I would have got a yes. Two, by clearing these ghosts, will it put me on their radar or anyone else's radar who could be a problem? I would have gotten yes. So I didn't ask those two things. Or you could simply ask, will I regret clearing this later? Yes, I would have gotten a yes. So didn't ask those things, cleared it. Then I got a massive dark force attack in my sleep, had to deal with that. So then I woke up not feeling very rested, very frustrated, right? So if I had looked ahead a little bit and went just a little further and planned for the worst, I could have balanced that for myself, right? So it's a good learning lesson for me so that I can help my students to help you, all of that, right? Now, of course, this also translates to things with kids, with potential partners, jobs, clients, all of that, right? So I had to take my child to a very long medical appointment. I was extremely worried about how that was going to go. So I looked at the worst case, like maybe we have to leave halfway through, maybe we have to reschedule. It was also very far away. And then I added some energy work to make it more likely that it would go well. But because I did all of that prep work on worst case, it actually ended up going amazing. We were there for like three hours, there were no issues, and yes, my energy work helped, but also just making sure that I prepared for worst case for a potential person you want to date. You could, you know, if you're about to go on a date with someone, instead of getting excited, and I know this is going to sound like a Debbie Downer, but instead of getting excited, actually look at, okay, what's the worst case? Like one, I might not enjoy their company, I might have to turn them down, I might have to end the date early, I might have to have that awkward conversation that we're just not a match. If you go in with that, you're more likely to actually uh have a more emotionally balanced time and be pleasantly surprised. Versus if you go in the way I used to, which was like, oh my gosh, I'm gonna marry this person. Let me go pick out my wedding dress for you know next summer. And I would immediately see ourselves living together and all these crazy things where my mind would go to the best possible solution. I don't do that anymore because I understand all of these energetic spiritual laws, right? So just some thoughts there. Try that out. Let me know how it goes for you. I love hearing the success stories when you plan ahead at worst case, and then you go in and actually, you know, it's pleasantly surprising. So just shifting gears a little bit, I had some great questions from people last week, and I wanted to share some information with you based on their questions and based on something I'm recording for my Light It Up program, which is my Dark Force program. So someone was asking if these dark force people beings don't have, like they've disconnected from source, right? Where do they get this energy from? Where do they get all this power and energy from? Well, there are a few different options. One, they could be corded into light beings and draining their energy. Two, they could be using like a big one-time uh energy explosion, which would be like a sacrifice and sending energy that way, or they could be cooperating with demons or other dark entities. And this is where you really have to be careful with healers because even people who mean well, they they might think that they're tapping into the light, but a lot of demons present themselves as like, oh, I'm Mary Magdalene, but it's actually the dark version of Mary Magdalene, or it could be some higher-level demons who actually uh are more evolved and they can actually heal, but there's also like always a cost with that, right? So if you just think about that one healer, John of God, I actually remember back in 2000, I think it was 18, when I was going to my first intuition energy healing school with my daughter, actually, she was going as well. Uh we weren't taught dark forces, at least for the time I was there. We weren't taught about dark forces. And they would plan a trip every year to go see John of God. And I remember one year I was like, oh gosh, I want to go. I wish I had the money to go. They would go stay there, they would get healings from him, and you know what? Yes, he would heal people. Maybe someone's cancer would disappear, but then a few weeks later their entire life would fall apart, right? Because that was the trade. And they don't know, but like the demon took care of the cancer, but then it took their life force in return. And then he ended up getting arrested. But you can just look at who went to him, who praised him. Oprah, right? Uh, Gabby Bernstein went to him, and then she had a lot of issues after that as well. So you have to be really careful, especially when it's like a healer who's become kind of world famous. Definitely, if you don't have your intuition, ask someone with intuition to look in and see how aligned with the light they are and if they have any cooperative dark force energy. And I have even had like Reiki practitioners in the past who were beautiful people. They thought they were tapping into light and they weren't. They were actually tapping into a dark being and then they were sending that energy through their body into your body, right? Or priests. A lot of priests think they're talking to angels. Some of them are knowingly talking to demons, but some of them think they're talking to angels and they're actually talking to demons. So again, people in a bubble might think, oh, that's not really happening, because maybe they haven't experienced it, right? I've experienced a lot of this dark force stuff firsthand, so I can tell you it is happening and it happens on the daily. So just kind of being aware and realizing like this is actually happening, this does happen. Children being sacrificed is a very real thing. Uh I've spoken to people who have been a part of that. It is real because babies uh hold so much light and pure innocence. And that's why they use them, and that's why in the Epstein files, it's so disturbing because of what they're doing to kids. And that's all for a dark force reason, right? So today's takeaway, a little bit of a mashup, but one live with awareness. Two, understand that not everyone is playing by the same rules as you are. Three, plan for the worst. To touch back briefly on that, if you look at really successful CEOs like Steve Jobs or the leaders of other Fortune 500 companies, one of their major traits is that they always plan for the worst. They will actually sit down and think about what could happen. And it's not because they're pessimists, it's because they know that kind of preparation will get them further than most people. And then finally, make sure you're working with healers who are tapped into source energy, not the dark. So let me know what your takeaway is today, any success stories you have in the membership this month. I'm actually going to start a healing for my members on each month. We'll focus on a different chakra. So this month it'll be the first chakra. I'm going to do an actual healing on the chakra, but then also give you guys ingredients to work on for the month to really open up, heal, and tap into the power of those energy centers. So I'm really excited about that. And I hope you guys have a wonderful week. So great to be back. Bye. Thank you for listening to Unveiled. I always love hearing your takeaways. So please connect with me on Instagram at Angela Murray Christian. And feel free to tag me and share it with your friends. Every single review matters, and it helps me reach more people who want to improve this game. 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