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Relationships Exist For Soul Growth...Not Fairy Tales
•Angela Christian•Season 5•Episode 21
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Love can feel confusing when you’re measuring it against a fantasy. We go straight at the stories many of us grew up with, and we ask a tougher question: what if relationships are designed for soul growth, not happily ever after? I share what I’ve learned through my own relationship history and my work as an intuitive healer, including why “reflections” and obstacles often spike during big life changes and what those moments are trying to show you.
We also get practical about emotional processing. I explain how I use journaling to get emotions out of my system, why I give myself 24 to 48 hours to be upset, and how staying too long in low emotions can keep you stuck. From there we zoom out to how healing actually works as a partnership: I can clear energy and pull guidance, but your results come from integrating the action steps and embodying real change over time, especially with long-standing patterns like anxiety.
Then we open the door to relationship truth from a higher-self lens: soul contracts, timing, and why some people are practice partners who build your skills the way early jobs build your career. If you’ve felt guilty for outgrowing a relationship or confused by sudden “speed bumps,” this will give you a new framework.
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Welcome to Unveiled, the podcast. I'm your host, Angela Christian, and I help you with unveiling your true self by peeling away the layers that society placed on you. I do this with a combination of neuroscience, energetics, and ancient spiritual wisdom. I went from underpaid and overworked in corporate America to launching a six-figure company that continues to grow. I went from toxic relationships to being happy and single for over a year as I work and continue to work on becoming the best version of myself and so much more. My greatest passion is to help women and mothers heal, transform, and become the highest versions of themselves. As I continue to grow and expand my intuitive knowledge and unique wisdom, I'll be including you on my journey to millions. So let's get into it.
Hello and welcome back to Unveiled. So excited to be back. I've had a lot of life changes, as some of you know, good ones, but that with that always comes reflections and emotions and obstacles, right? Which are the gifts. As I navigated this big life shift, life change, I could really feel for people who might not understand reflections and obstacles at the level I do, at the level of some of you do, right? Who've studied this for as long as I have.
Other people, it might be journaling. So sitting down and just writing out, okay, here's how I'm feeling. Here's what, you know, being a human for a second, here's what this person did to me, here's what that person said to me. How are you judging that? Right. Like it was really interesting because when you're able to sit and just get your emotions out, I kind of talked about this. Was that on a Sunday source? Or no, it was a podcast episode. The mean girl, let your inner mean girl out. Ideally, you'd be processing it alone. You wouldn't even need to tell a friend, right? So that would be the goal is to process it alone and be able to shift through it. So I allow myself sometimes 24, no more than 48 hours to be upset about something. That's just me. I'm kind of hardcore with things because after 48 hours of sitting in a negative, low conscious emotion, it will actually start creating health issues and all of that, right? So if it's something major, I'm like, I'm just gonna take a day to like process, to cry, to figure out what I'm feeling. And sometimes reflections are really tough to figure out on your own, especially when you haven't spent years understanding all of the universal laws. And, you know, as I get more clients who are newer to this world, who are newer to this whole idea of reflections, I'm like, okay, I really need to bring it back to basics and be able to explain it to people who just don't really understand, right?
So I'm realizing this is where I need to create another free series. Speaking of free series, my free relationship series just dropped yesterday, and I have a little treat for you at the end here. I'm going to allow you to listen to the first audio. If you want any of the other audios, you do have to sign up for it. I do just want to give a preview to you guys here because I have a lot of podcast listeners, and a lot of you might not see me on social media. You might not be on my email list, that kind of thing. So I want to make sure you have the same opportunity to jump into the series if it interests you. So I will, when I'm done with my little spiel here, I will go ahead and share the first audio. But again, you'll need to sign up for the series if you want the rest. So I always look at new situations, things that are happening to me, things that my clients are going through as an opportunity to share more with the world, right? So what I've noticed recently that's just come up is I do a lot of client sessions with people who already understand reflections and just really want help, right, with that, or they're having dark force issues and they just can't get through it. I do a lot of that uh client work. But what I'm getting now and I love is people maybe who don't understand as much how all the energetic laws work, how healings actually work, right? Because I've had a lot of people recently come to me with long-standing health issues and who want help shifting that, which I can 100% do, but it is a partnership, right? It is me doing the energy work, pulling the intuitive information from source, from higher self, and then sharing the action steps with my clients. It's then on my client to follow through with the action steps. If they don't, and sometimes, to be fair, someone will think like I'm doing all the action steps. And then when I look in, maybe they've integrated about 48% of the action steps I've given, right? Because it's not just about checking them off on a checklist, it's about really embodying them and emotionally connecting to them. So this is just giving me more insight into where I need to share free information with people on how healings work, on how this partnership works, on how, you know, if someone comes to me, I shared this in where did I share this? Uh, I've recorded so many audios this week. In my membership yesterday, I dropped an audio on the fifth chakra and also high frequency communication and how I don't know how this came up. I'm trying to remember if this was where I shared it. But anyway, the point is if someone comes to me and they've had anxiety for 15 years, can I help them with that 100%? If I'm, I always test if I'm the right person. If not, I'll refer them to someone else. But it's not going to be overnight. And yes, a lot of times I get this question all the time from people. I'll do a session with them, I'll do a healing with them, and they'll feel like, you know, things might amplify a little bit more. It's not because of the healings I've done. It's because you're coming to me for a huge life shift. You want a life without anxiety, for example. Okay, I've done the healings, you have the action steps. Your higher self is then going to bring in and show you what needs shifting, where your attention needs to go. Higher self gets, you know, excited that you are taking the step because to remove 15 years of anxiety means you'll be closer onto your soul path, right? To get to where we want to go, there are large speed bumps and they don't stop. Just because you've, you know, made it over one large speed bump doesn't mean they're going to stop. But the sooner you can see these as gifts and like getting you to the life you're asking for. I talked about this in the Sunday source. If you didn't listen to the last two, I do recommend they're free, listening to the last two, especially if you struggle with this idea around understanding our human wants versus our higher self plans. So I'll link that in the show notes. Just make sure you sign up for the audios, which are free, but I dive more into it in the audios. So when I ask for a certain level in my business, I know there's gonna be a ton of reflections that come up to get me there. I just know that and I expect it. It's not an easy road. It's not a magic wand uh that I'm waving and removing everything from your life. Like there is no shortcut when you're a high conscious being on your high, on your soul path. There's just not. Like, sure, you can accelerate some timelines. If you learn and integrate the concepts of reflections of dark forces, it can be easier. You will have more tools. But you're not, it's not gonna remove all the obstacles from your life. There are ways of getting ahead of them, right? Like this morning, I can ask, Am I a match for this to happen today? Yes. Okay, how do I remove that? How do I neutralize it so that doesn't happen? That comes with years of trained intuition. That's not something someone typically can do even right away. So it takes time. You have to earn your right to access source information to dial in your intuition at these levels, right?
And one of the key things I'm seeing right now in the world, I've been talking about this for years, but is the necessity. It's not even a luxury at this point, a necessity for dark force protection. Like just look at the actress that recently lost her life. I did talk about this in my membership this month. So if you're in my membership, I give you the what I saw happened. If she had had dark force protection, things could have been different. Dark Force protection is necessary for where our world is heading right now.
And so actually, right now, I reopened my dark force precision program. So my dark force precision program is basically like a 1.5. So a level 1.5, right? It's in between level one and level two. What it does is it takes the level one information, makes sure you have the most up-to-date techniques, and then I add in a lot of tools that you wouldn't have had in a level one. And we meet live, I answer your questions, I check your work. It's really great for people who are already seeing clients because I can help you figure out where, you know, something might have been missed or where maybe you pulled something and you weren't sure about it. I can help with all of that. I also give a lot of energetic protection tools that you wouldn't find in a level one. And not just that, but I take what you've learned in a level one and just add upon it. So you do have to have a level one dark force training. So I have Light It Up, which is my level one dark force training. So you wouldn't be able to join Dark Force Precision unless you've taken Light It Up or a similar level one Dark Force program. So that is open now. You will get access to week one right away. And then we'll have every three weeks live calls where we can go over all your questions, check your work, that kind of thing. So that is open. So I will be sending an email out to people. I opened it up to those who are on the wait list first, and now I'm gonna open it up to everyone. Uh, I am capping it though at a certain level because I just want it to stay intimate. That's when we can have the best conversations. And I like to keep the spaces somewhat small. So I will share the link in the show notes if you want to take a look at some of the things I teach in there. I do go over like more in depth and sleep protection stuff and uh also cord cutting, just an extra boost to what I have shared previously in my light it up. And so, as you know, relationships are such a big piece of our soul growth, it is key to have this dark force training. So I've had sessions with couples who are very high frequency, who are fighting, who are breaking up, who I can tell it's dark forces influencing them because they are two high frequency beings. If you are in a partnership, your high frequency, your partner's high frequency, your light is like so amplified. You will be a target for dark force attacks. So relationships and dark forces do go together in this way, and they happen to be my two of my areas of expertise on top of healing,
right? So you can jump into the free relationship series. The way that it's set up is I'm releasing a new audio each week for six weeks. So the first one you'll hear today, it's already out. And then at the end of the six weeks, you'll be invited to a free QA with me. You're able to submit questions throughout the series. So I'll go over questions that are submitted, I'll take live questions. It's a really good opportunity to just learn how like the Dark Force world influenced our whole idea around relationships. Like it is pretty incredible how they've manipulated us in so many different ways, but I am unveiling the ways that they influenced relationships. So without further ado, I will share the first audio here with you. And I would love to see you inside. Have a wonderful week.
Hello and welcome to Loving Clearly. I'm so excited for this free series that has been in the works for quite a while and per usual is coming in at the perfect time. My name is Angela Christian. I am a trained intuitive and healer. And relationships have been one of my biggest struggles throughout the years, which is always an indicator of where our skill sets tend to be, right? So typically we will come into this world with soul wisdom, soul knowledge, right? And it has to be activated physically in this third realm, which is a very physical realm. So of course, I have experienced just about everything someone could experience in a relationship, all the struggles, all the issues, all the uh learning, helpful, reflective moments in order to be able to help clients, right? To be able to relate to what they're going through. So this is a free series on the source truth around relationships. And before we dive in, I do want to give a little disclaimer that some of the information you might hear could be triggering. It could go against what you've been taught. Rest assured, it's just the ego part of ourselves that doesn't like change. And when something that has been drilled into us since childhood is being questioned and torn apart, and you know, it that can just feel really uncomfortable to the ego. So if you do get a little triggered, I recommend just leaning into it, asking some questions around why that might be. And I will be going over some common questions around this very thing that I've seen pop up in my relationship analysis sessions. And at the end of the series, you'll be invited to a free QA with me. So you can definitely write down your questions and start submitting them even after this audio. There will be six audios in total, one dropping each week, and then you'll be invited to the QA. So let's dive in. What did Source create relationships for? Soul growth. Not to just have a date on Friday night, not to just Netflix and chill, not even to have happily ever after with the first person we date. Relationships were created for soul growth. However, as a child, we were sold on the fairy tale of happily ever after. I remember as a young girl wanting to meet my Prince Charming. I used to walk around in my mom's wedding dress. There are literally pictures of me pretending I was getting married. I grew
up on Disney, which is one of the darkest companies in the world, if you did not know that. Disney also just feeds children with these Dark Force ideas about relationships. And I mean, they're actually doing a lot worse than that, but that's a whole different Dark Force topic. So I watched these Disney princes make these grand gestures, you know, come sweep these women off their feet, come saving them, right? That's what I wanted as a child. And then that stuck with me. I wanted a prince to fight for me, to save me, to give up a kingdom if I wasn't accepted, to sweep me off my feet and just give me everything I wanted, right? But here's the thing: it's a very manipulative program they've curated with these very stories. And it's a hypnosis, actually, if you think about it, because we end up creating such high expectations, right? And then we realize oh, this guy I'm dating is not a prince. He doesn't have magical powers, he's just a normal guy. Maybe he has daddy issues, maybe he has annoying habits, and then we hit that low, right? And then it becomes difficult because you're just looking for that high. You're looking for what was shown to you in not just Disney movies, but look at movies like The Notebook, which I've torn apart in a podcast episode. Back when I was very much under the same hypnosis, I used to watch the notebook and think, oh my God, I want someone like Noah. So passionate. Like, no, that is toxic. Now I would watch it and be like, I want the other guy, whoever I can't remember his name now, but the other guy that's like has a good job. He's pretty, his emotions seem pretty even keeled, right? So thanks to Hollywood, thanks to Disney, we get these really unrealistic expectations around relationships. And that's what they want. Because if we're stuck battling our partner all the time, are you going to grow on your soul path? Are you going to even get on your soul path if you're if you're just spending so much time and energy fighting with your partner or being depressed that you got dumped or, you know, whatever it might be, it really is manufactured to keep people stuck and not move forward in their soul growth. That's what the dark forces of the world have done. But you are here, which means you're ready to step into the source truth around relationships and up your relationship IQ. So to summarize, relationships are not for the happy ever after. Relationships are to help us grow. So we came into this world with specific desires for growth from our higher self, right?
But our human doesn't remember those agreements. We came into this world with soul contracts with specific people. In my sessions with clients, I've seen a lot of contracts and they really do vary with their lessons, their expiration dates, their goals. You're not just randomly in a relationship with someone. It was carefully curated by your higher self for a specific purpose. And that's why I love doing my relationship analysis sessions with clients because I can help them understand the what and the why when they're with someone or were with someone and where to go, you know, to either make it the best possible relationship and then where to go from here, whether it's, you know, making the best possible relationship and then leaving or how to make this relationship successful if it's the person they are actually meant to be with for the long term. And then I'm able to look into the future also to see what's coming, right? So if someone is single and they want to know if they have a potential soulmate or soul complement, I'm able to not only pull the information, but I have the ability to, I'll say remote view, it's much more complex than remote viewing, but I'm able to remote view the very person they're meant to be with to understand how my client can be the best possible match for them in order to be ready and to call them in when it's time, right? Because in case you didn't know this, your higher self will 100% hold back your soulmate or soul compliment until you are ready, which means you have the tools, you have the experience you need to hopefully not destroy the relationship, right? Because if you were to call in your soul compliment or soulmate early somehow, maybe you needed a lesson. If you don't have the tools and experience, it's gonna blow up. So sometimes that is part of someone's contract. Like they have to call in that person, ruin the relations, not really ruin it, but like destroy that relationship. And then that's how they learn some of the tools. That's how some of the physical uh wisdom gets activated. So if you are single at the moment and not currently with your soulmate or soul compliment, you are likely just missing tools, which I can help you with in a session, right? So relationships are the key to success in every area of our life because a good relationship will enhance every area and it will show you when you're out of balance. We all know what a bad, and I'm putting those in quotation marks, not really bad, but we all know what a passionate relationship looks like and how. How draining it can be, right? So when you're able to understand though those reflections and understand that through obstacles with others, and this isn't just romantic relationships, but also we have soul contracts with family members, friends, etc. So we teach each other valuable lessons. However, the relationships that were modeled for us, I'd say probably 90%, probably even higher, actually, of them were quite unhealthy. But it's not their fault either. They were taught the same dark force programming as we were. And sometimes even worse, because if you think about it, there used to be so much shame around divorce. Then there's like arranged marriages. You know, there's a lot that our prior generations had to deal with. So if you look at your family members, especially the older generations, they often married young and just stayed with that person their whole lives, even if they were both unhappy, which again is also reflective. But this is part of the Dark Force programming to just marry the first person you're in a serious relationship with. And then sure, maybe for certain people, maybe younger souls, that is what's meant for them. But just like in the career area of life, we often need to work our way up with partners of different alignments, which I'll talk about in a different audio. And this is where some of my clients have struggled because they'll feel bad or guilty for seeing their partner as a practice partner, but that feeling of shame or guilt is coming from your programming, not from your higher self. So when I look in and I see that your current partner and you, let's say, are contracted for another year, that's information from your higher self, who is a mini god, in case you didn't know. So who do you think knows better? Your human self with all its limitations and programming, or your higher self, who literally had a conversation and plan created for you with source, right?
So to give a different kind of analogy here, let's just look at how this works in careers. So years ago, I graduated with an MBA, which is a master's in business administration, knowing I'd be working in various accounting and finance firms, and I always knew I'd eventually go out on my own. I was not built to work for somebody else, especially sitting in an office nine to five. That was very clear from an early age. But I knew I had to do that and put in my time. So I started at one firm, I learned very valuable skills, had, you know, issues, but then also a lot of aha moments. Then I would go to a different firm, more money, more valuable skills. And this carried on for years until one day I decided to launch my own firm, right? And that was in August 2023. I was able to create a six-figure business right away because I had timed it all. I intuitively, without even knowing, I intuitively knew the plan. I didn't feel guilty for working for certain firms knowing I'd leave. Like I was giving them good, honest work, and in return they were paying me, right? It sounds funny, but it's very similar to relationships. I actually remember reading a book years ago called The Starter Wife. And I remember being so offended by it at the time. I was like, the starter wife? How can someone think like that? But now I can see the source truth in it, and we do have practice partners in terms of romantic relationships, just like I had practice firms leading up until I was able to go out on my own, and I did it at the perfect time because things fell into place. And it was just like, yes, I put in my time, I did what I needed to do. I learned the skill sets needed to be able to reach that point, right? And it's the same with relationships. And another way to think about this is the practice partner, their higher self agreed to it with our higher self, right? There's nothing to feel guilty about when you can see it from source's perspective, as you're actually walking your soul path by following what your higher self set out for you to do, even if that means being with a practice partner and you might know that, your partner might not know that. And sometimes I can understand how that would feel a little like you're being um manipulative or feeling like maybe you're lying, but you're not. You're just you happen to have this spiritual truth. You're likely an older soul, right? And I've had to break off things with people, not really serious things, but you know, when I can see like this isn't really worth my time, it's actually kind of distracting me. And I've had to end it with people who I'm was interested in, but just like my soul path is more important to me, which sounds, I know it sounds a little rough, but like that's just how it
is. And I've seen what happens when people stay in a relationship that has an expired contract. Life might blow up on them, life completely stalls, or that person might just, you know, their partner who they're supposed to have left maybe a year ago, will suddenly get a job across the country, right? Like things will happen and it will be clear. Now, sometimes, though, if you don't have your intuition dialed in yet, it can be hard to read what is actually happening and what's reflective. So for that, I would recommend an intuitive session. And it's not that you're being punished for staying in an expired relationship. It's just that your higher self's trying to get your attention, right? And what I saw when I was actually channeling that part is I saw like a bowling alley lane with those bumpers. So your higher self is trying to help you not completely destroy the chance at a beautiful strike. So to do that, obstacles will pop in to get your attention, just like the bowling ball will hit those bumpers, right? So we'll get into more about this in the upcoming audios, but I just really wanted to lay that foundation here for you today to start thinking about it and start looking at your own relationships of the past, maybe what you were being shown, your relationships currently. A big piece of this puzzle is also starting to understand your heart wants versus your human wants, which I did go into in a recent Sunday Source episode uh two Sundays ago. And then last night's Sunday Source was also kind of in the same flavor. So those are free. And in case you aren't part of that, it's a free weekly channeling session I do with source where I pull in whatever you guys need to hear most. So I'll share a link for you to sign up for that. Again, it's free. If you're new, I would make sure you can get the audios. There's a way to sign up for that. And I would go back and listen to the one I shared yesterday and then the one before that. That will all lay a great foundation to what we're talking about in this series.
I will also share a link in the show notes where you can put your questions in at any time during this free series, and then I'll answer those questions in the QA. So just go ahead and drop them. There's no stupid questions at all. I know this can feel jarring and a bit overwhelming, especially if this is the first time you've heard these concepts. So you're always welcome to purchase a relationship analysis with me to cover a relationship in your life now, a past one, or even how to prepare for a future one. I've done all of those and I've done romantic, I've done family. All relationships are important and all relationships help with soul growth. And as a practice for this week, just start noticing the relationships in your life that you've had that were really impactful, emotional. I would write those down because if you don't already know, which we'll get into, we do tend to form chords with those relationships. And these chords don't expire. So it's really important that we cut those cords, get your soul pieces back, all of that. So I would just start taking note of the most impactful relationships you've had. That's not always romantic. A lot of times it's someone in the workplace or a friend or a family member. So just start looking at that, maybe even trying to look at what was the purpose of that relationship. What was it teaching you? That's how you can also start neutralizing any negative feelings you might have towards people, right? Which we want to look at things from source perspective. That's the goal is to be neutral. There's always equal parts, good and bad, in every relationship. And I've been in very abusive relationships, and now I will see, you know, the guy that used to abuse me and I'll give him a hug. Like we're not, there's no bad blood there because I've neutralized and I've pulled our soul contract and I can see it all from a higher perspective. So I'm sending you all love. Thank you so much for being here. And I'm excited to share the next audio with you in a week.
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